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Choose to Live Your Life in Abundance in the after--- after the spouse dies, after the marriage ends, after the kids leave. Join me on my journey of CHOOSING LIFE in my after. This day I call the heavens and the earth as witnesses against you that I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses. Now choose life, so that you and your children may live- Deut 30:19

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January 26, 2016

My Guilty Pleasure- The Real Housewives!!

I have several things that are guilty pleasures in my life.  Of course one would have to be food!!!  Anyone can tell by looking at me that I like to eat.  I am not thin, not really overweight, but I have some extra weight on me.  After just celebrating my 52 birthday, I am coming to be OK with a few extra pounds.  I'm getting the attitude that life is just too short to obsess over 5 pounds.  Of course I would love to lose five pounds at any given moment, but I don't want to dwell on it.

My other guilty pleasure that I love is watching Real Housewives... I watch, OC, Beverly Hills, and New York.  I can't wait for the Dallas one to start.  Since I am not going to work on Tuesdays and Thursdays any more, I find that I turn the TV to Bravo on Tuesday afternoons and start watching past episodes. I'm then ready for the big event that evening!!

Over Thanksgiving at my parents' house when Fox News had been on ad nauseum,  I had a conversation with my mom about how having that channel on 24/7 isn't good for her or my dad.  I think it gets depressing after a while.  She turned on me and let me know how she feels about me and my sister watching the depravity of The Real Housewives...

I admit, it did make me think for a minute.  A New York minute that is, and then I was back to enjoying the spectacle of RH.  I always wonder if what happens is real.  So many people say it is all stages, but I just don't see how they could come up with that much.

Oh well,  I guess the point is that I'm entertained by it and will continue to watch.  I think it is either a love/ hate kind of thing.  So where do you stand.  Do you love or hate the Real Housewives??
January 11, 2016

Bitter With The Sweet

I just returned from a wonderful trip to Jackson Hole, Wyoming.  It was a ski trip hosted by Dr. T's best friend.  The weather was perfect- so I was told, but it was still cold to me.  The skiing was a bit icy in places and I was the skier who had a hard time keeping up.  The last time I went skiing was 6 years ago when M was a senior in high school.

I have wonderful memories of skiing with R and the kids.  We usually went skiing with a couple of other families.  The greatest memories I have of skiing is watching the kids ski and have such a great time.  Those memories were very much with me on this trip.  It was a bit hard at times.  One day when it was time to go back out to the slopes after lunch, I asked Dr. T if he wanted to stay in for just 30 more minutes.  His response was that we came there to ski, and he thought we should go out and ski.  That statement was kind of like a slap in the face.  He didn't mean it to be mean, but he was just being honest... the fact is-- we were there to ski.

 It hit me then why I felt melancholy at times.  I had never been on a ski trip for the sheer enjoyment of skiing.  I always went skiing to watch the kids ski and have fun.  This was new to me.  I had never been on the slopes just to ski.  That night I had a mini melt down and just laid in bed and cried-  not sobbing, but just tears streaming.  Dr. T just let me let it all out.  The next day he planned a snowmobile tour into Yellowstone Park to see Old Faithful.  While we were up waiting on our shuttle to pick us up, he looked at me and said, "I know all your past ski trips have been about your kids, but today is about you.  I want us to really enjoy this day together."  How sweet.  I know he doesn't completely understand how I feel about my kids.  But I know that he is sympathetic to what I am feeling.

And so once again I realize that for the rest of my life, I will take the bitter with the sweet.  That is my life.  The trick is being prepared for it and not being blindsided by it.  I'm still not there yet.
Seeing Old Faithful!!


My ski buddies

Lunch at the Cowboy Bar in JH

Snowmobiling in Yellowstone